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Earlism #76 God’s Dream … God’s Way …

By Jones The Advisor / March 23, 2020 / 0 Comments

“… In order to Live God’s Dream …

… God’s Way …

… You must …

… Totally Submit & Obey …”



Dreams

… Joseph is seemingly my favorite Biblical Character (actually it is Abigail) because I use him as a frame of reference more than any other. He is prominently featured in both of my books: A Personality Portrait & Enoch’s Journey. So, why not use him again? …

… I see So Many of us take a God Dream and try to manifest it our way (see: Earlism #59 Think You Thought … All By Yourself?) …

… I Believe that we do this for a few reasons. One reason is that it is as ‘hard as heck’ to wait on God and to COMPLETELY do things His way …

… I call this ‘snatching the steering wheel’ from God …


Snatching the Steering Wheel

… What happens is that we get some Grand Vision or Dream of what our life should be or should look like in the ‘future.’ … 

… However, we forget or do not recognize Who Revealed this Grand Dream or Vision for our lives to us. It is a Dream, where we are doing something that we never thought we could do … 

… And possibly something that we never thought we were qualified to do … 

… And in some instances, something that we, in and of ourselves, sans God’s Dream, never wanted to do (i.e. being an Author or a Writer, for me) … 


… But we see some Grand Vision for our lives and are totally excited to ‘go get it.’ Or, maybe not so much … but we know that it is a Vision of things to come. So we are, at the very least, definitely intrigued by it. And we Feel compelled to pursue it. Or as they say in the South, we are compelled to …

… “Run on and see what the end gonna be!””  …


Dreams Come with Mandates

… These Dreams come with some mandates. In Joseph’s case he had to tell his family about his Dreams (Genesis 37 & Enoch’s Journey) …

… And as Dwayne Wayne said in the old sitcom, A Diff’rent World “… and that’s when the fight broke out!” … 

… Them jokers (Joseph’s older brothers) plotted to kill him! AND only settled for throwing him in a dry water well or cistern. Only to later, fish him out and sell him into slavery, to their distant cousins the Ishmaelites. …


He COULD Go … All …The …Way!

… The point is that we have to go all the way through our version, of everything that Joseph endured, including: murder plots, being betrayed and sold by your brothers into slavery, slavery itself, lusty slaveowners wives attacking us, lies on top of lies, prison for a crime you never committed, and being forgotten and abandoned … 

… And if we can make it through this, in Joseph’s case, thirteen years of Searing Pain, inflicted on our entire life … 

… Then we can finally see God’s Dreams …

… Manifest in God’s Way (Genesis 37, 39-41, 42-50, NLT) …


… BUT who the heck has the time or patience for ALL THAT?!? …


Take This Exit … 

… So we snatch the steering wheel from God … 

… Take the nearest off ramp … 

… And drive ourselves to … ‘Near Place’ … which looks something like the Dream … 

… But this ‘Near Place’ came up on the Highway of Searing Pain … 

… Much sooner than the actual, God Inspired, long ago, Dreamed of ‘New Place’ …

… Joseph’s Great Great Grandfather Terah did this same …

… Snatching the Steering Wheel from God move, in Genesis (11:31-32) …


… It is just easier …


… But in the end …

… This ‘Near Place’ is not at all …

… The Inspired & God Breathed, Long Ago Dreamed of ‘New Place’ … 

… That God was sending you to …

… When you first saw … 

… His Dream …


… Looked Something Like The Dream …

… So, you started dating and married the first dude that came along who looked ‘something like’ the Dream …

… So, you took the first job that came along that looked ‘something like’ the Dream …

… So, you took the easy way out …

… Instead of waiting, many times suffering, & patiently enduring to …


… ‘See what the end gonna be!’ …


… Although you already know what ‘the end gonna be’ …


… Because ‘it was all a Dream’  …

… A God Inspired Dream …

… Given to you …


… One which you took into your own hands …

… And Unfortunately …

… Decided to manifest in your own way …


… Let God do the driving …

… Don’t be His co-pilot …

… Don’t say “are we there yet?” …

… Patiently Endure …

… And go along for the ride …



Galatians 6:7-9 (PHILLIPS)

… A man’s harvest in life will depend entirely on what he sows. … 

… If he sows for his own lower nature his harvest will be the decay and death of his own nature. … 

… But if he sows for the Spirit he will reap the harvest of everlasting life by that Spirit. …  

… Let us not grow tired of doing good, for, unless we throw in our hand, the ultimate harvest is assured. …

Earlism #2 How To Hit A Target

By Jones The Advisor / March 12, 2020 / 0 Comments

“… Question: How do you hit a target? … 

Answer: Throw something at it! …”



A Marketing term that relates to reaching Primary, Secondary, and Tertiary Target Markets.  


But it also can be used to encourage people to reach their goals.

One must first identify their Goal or Target Objective. 

Then they must hurl or throw a perfectly useful and appropriate object at it! 


In other words, they must propel themselves, their resume or C.V., money, skills and abilities, or whatever the required object is, at the Target, Job, or Goal. 


… One will never reach their goals, if they simply think about, conceptualize, idealize, or even identify their Goal …

… Without requisite and corresponding action …

Earlism #72 Who, What, AND Where?

By Jones The Advisor / February 28, 2020 / 0 Comments

“… Who are they? … 

… What is their name? …

… AND … 

… Are they out of OUR Lives Forever!?! …”



… What I used to ask some of my academic probation and suspension students …

… They would look in stunned amazement that I knew …


… AS IF I had just read their mind …

… But in reality, I knew what caused their current dilemma …


… It was some energy sucking, soul sucking, significant other …

… Who they were currently dating …

… And continuing to allow to pollute their lives …


… sorry for being so negative …


… and ruining their ability to focus on their academic progress as well as all other areas of their lives …


… Thus their current dilemma …


… So my next question … 

… Which I never asked … 

… Was …


… Why do you keep letting them come back into your life? …


… Answer …

… As Al Green once famously sang …  

“… I’m so tired of being alone … I’m So Tired of on my own …”


… So not only will your ‘fear’ of being alone and never finding anyone else …

… Who will contribute to your life instead of continuing to confuse you and to cause confusion in your life …


… You hang on to that Joker …

… Keep me employed …

… And continue to …

… See Earlism #26 Self – Inflicted …

Earlism #70 Smarten Up?

By Jones The Advisor / February 21, 2020 / 0 Comments


“… Why do people …

… Dumb Things Down…

… As Opposed to …

… Smarten Things Up …” 


I Can See Clearly Now … The Rain Is Gone

This topic reminds me of the song “I can see Clearly now … the Rain is Gone” … Who sang it? … I never know with the Oldies! … Or the ‘Newies’ for that matter, lol! …

One of my former adult students in one of the classes I taught for a University at their local church said, “you put things on the ‘lower shelf’ in class so we can understand them.” It was the only feedback as an Instructor that made sense to me, although I do not know how I do it. Meaning, IDK how students hear what I say … but obviously it works because they keep coming back!

However, I know that I do not do it by ‘Dumbing Things Down’ for them. I am often explaining complex ideas … in order to ‘Smarten Them Up.’

So why use or try to explain a simpler model assuming that is all they can understand?

When your job is to try to elevate them beyond their current level of understanding … or your job is to ‘Smarten Them Up’ …

… And according to at least one former student I am able to ‘make the complex, simple’ …  

Again, I do not know how I do it … 

I guess because I am not Dumbing Down the material … 

… Particularly not if I am trying to get my students to Smarten Up

My goal is to introduce them to new material and ideas. But others seem to want people to gravitate toward a simpler model or idea. Even if that idea obfuscates or ‘grays out’ a lot of material in order to ‘simplify’ things. 

I believe that if you are a good Teacher … you can and must Teach them, in a way that they can understand, new material, ideas, and concepts so they can use those things when they leave your class. 

It is only difficult because the ‘Teacher’ does not like to think …

Or they do not know how to use or Teach the more complex idea themselves!


Photo Bombs

In my book A Personality Portrait, I described my preferred Personality Typology Model, MBTI, as a sixteen megapixel picture. That means that my preferred model has sixteen million points of refinement when you develop, print, reproduce, and look at a photograph of yourself.

Other models associated with Personality Typology try to shove those sixteen million points of refinement into for example 

One of four oversimplified points of refinement 

… In short, it gives you a blurry picture that is not very clear when you look at it 

… Even though it might be easier to use a camera with only four megapixels 

But when you look at yourself in a picture … 

You want to see yourself as clearly as possible 

 It may take more time to learn to use a sixteen megapixel camera …

… But in the end …

… It is more than worth it …  

… Because … 

… You get the best pictures …


The Task of the Modern Educator

“The task of the modern educator is not to cut down jungles, but to irrigate deserts.”


― C.S. Lewis

Earlism #74 Afraid?

By Jones The Advisor / February 15, 2020 / 0 Comments


“… How can you be afraid? … 

… If fear has been Expelled …”



… God is Love …

… And all who live in Love live in God … 

… And God Lives in them …  

… Love has no fear …

… Because Perfect Love Expels all fear …

1 John 4:16-19 (NLT)

Earlism #75 Love Actually? …

By Jones The Advisor / February 14, 2020 / 0 Comments


“… There is only One Way …

… For Love … 

… To actually become Love … 

… You have to Give it Away …”



… don’t just talk about Love …

… Put your Love into action … 

… Then it will truly be Love …


1 John 3:18 (NIRV)

Earlism #73 Lonely?

By Jones The Advisor / February 10, 2020 / 0 Comments


“… How can you be lonely? …

… If you are Never Alone …”



… Jesus came and spoke these words to them, “All power in Heaven and on earth has been given to me …

… and, remember, I AM with you always, even to the end of the world.” …

Matthew 28:18-20 (Phillips)

Earlism #71 In & Out

By Jones The Advisor / January 28, 2020 / 0 Comments


“… What if … 

… instead of fighting to Get Out …

… You were actually …

… fighting to Get In …

… all along? …”



… Life is but a few days and full of trouble … 

… a troubled man once said (Job 14:1, NIRV) … 


And man do we FIGHT HARD & FIGHT ON to get the heck outta here! Out of troubling or painfully disappointing situations and circumstances …


… But what if …

… Instead of fighting to GET OUT …

… We were fighting to GET IN …

… the whole time? …


As they say these days and I often repeat it, “the struggle is real!” All of this means that we face a lot of challenging situations and circumstances as we progress through Life’s Journey.

Most of the time we are just trying to get the heck out of … whatever situation or circumstance seems to be troubling us and blocking our pathway to bigger and better things.

Things that we Believe that we were Promised and should be entering into … RIGHT NOW!


But do not discount the difficulty that you are having. Strive to understand it before leaving …

That troublesome situation or circumstance might not be the BANE of your existence as you previously imagined. It might be a DOORWAY to the thing that you were Promised.


And the way to GET IN … is actually going through the present difficulty …  


I encourage you to get a Complete Understanding about why “it” is fighting so hard against you. Or why it is SO difficult to get past this “Through Place.” This seemingly Useless and Painful Place that just will not let you go. Like quicksand, it seems to be dragging you into a hole that has no end in sight and nothing good planned for you at the bottom.


But that “Get Out Place” might just be the only way for you to “Get In” to what you Believe that you were Promised …


If you “GET OUT” of this Place too soon … 

Or if you find YOUR OWN way out …

Without first finding out … 

Why this thing is so difficult to get past … 

And what is on the Other Side of Pain …

You may never “ENTER IN” …

To the place that you were Striving & Struggling to get to …

All Along …


Can You Hear?

By Jones The Advisor / January 18, 2020 / 0 Comments


Can You See?

I once heard a pretty famous pastor say regarding the verse of scripture that discusses the blind leading the blind, that the second blind man, the one who followed, should have shouted to the first man, the one who presumed to blindly lead “can you see (Matthew 15:14)!?!” It is a legitimate and logical question for two reasons. First of all, what would make a blind man presume to lead anyone, including himself along an unfamiliar road with nothing serving to aid him as he attempts to avoid obstacles? Second, why would you blithely follow someone, when you yourself cannot see and do not know where you are going? Particularly if you are not certain that the presumed leader can see and knows the directions either?

Similar principles apply when it comes to taking a Journey with God, along a course the He has laid out for you. If you are Following God, you can take the assumptions off of the board immediately. 

You know that God can See. And you know that God, the Leader, Author, and Finisher knows where He is Directing you to go. But like Abram, you do not yet know where the road ends nor how many ‘miles to go before we sleep (Genesis 12:1).’ So you do not have to shout at the Leader “can you see” as the second blind man should have queried. 


But when we are taking a Journey with God … 

On a road that is intentionally unfamiliar to us … 

We often end up shouting to the Leader …


“… Hey!!! Can You See!?! …” 


A Difficult Road Ahead

Now we do that because of the pain associated with following God on Enoch’s Journey to a Promised Land or to “Was Not” as I called it in a Book. It is difficult to do what Enoch, Abram, Joseph, Job, Nehemiah, and so many others have done, which is to Hear and Receive a Revelation from God, by Dream, Vision, or Spoken Word. And then, to Obediently, Blindly, and Faithfully follow God the Leader all the way to the point where we enter the full manifestation of what God Promised. 

We face many difficulties along that Journey after initially Hearing from God. Those trials are very painful. Not to mention all of the fateful yet faithful friends who will betray, doubt, and constantly serve as a thorn in our flesh along the way (2 Corinthians 12:7-10).

And if you are ‘lucky’, they might be your own family members who sell you into slavery only to have the slave owner’s wife lie on you about cheating on the slave owner and have you thrown in jail (Genesis 37-41)! All the while you were just Obediently following God to the Journey’s end!

No wonder you end up like Paul the Apostle asking God, three times for Paul “Hey … God!!! Can You See?” God took time to answer Paul and told him that His Grace to finish the Journey was more than enough to enable Paul to endure all of the pain that occurs along the Journey. And I Believe and have written in that same Book that Paul endured all of his hardships after entering into his “Was Not” or Promised Land.

Joseph in that same vein ended up having a slight crisis of conscience or temporary moment of doubt before he was called to Pharaoh’s Palace where he would see the full manifestation of the Dreams that he had many years prior. Joseph asked a Butler for whom he had just translated a Dream to “mention me and my plight to Pharaoh when you get out of Jail and are restored to the Palace.” Joseph, I Believe, made this request out of frustration regarding the Dream. You can tell because he began to discuss how he was betrayed and sold into slavery by his brothers and did nothing wrong to end up in Jail (Genesis 40). 

So, like Job and so many others we have Biblical evidence that discusses the fact that many people who take Enoch’s Journey with God end up questioning God’s ability to See where He is Leading us. The Journey is frustrating by Design. It is intended to Refine and Prepare us to effectively live in the Promised Land.


However, all we feel is the pain. 


It makes us feel like we are stumbling & fumbling around in the dark. Following a Leader who cannot see. A Leader who did not tell us that he was blind before he promised us that he would take us to a better place. And a Leader who does not actually know where he is going. Nor what trouble lies ahead.


I Know What I Heard …

Irrespective of how many people doubt your intellect for building an Ark in the middle of a Desert because “God Said …”, you have this Confirming Witness in your heart that lets you know that you are doing the right thing no matter how bad it looks or feels. I saw a movie yesterday where the man who also happened to be imprisoned for an extended period of time, for a crime that he did not commit, said that when he was first incarcerated he knew he would not be in there for a long period of time because he had the “Truth” on his side. 

Then, as time went on and his family and friends started to doubt him as well as visiting him in jail less often, he began to allow doubt to creep in, making him even question what was real and what was false. Although, he knew that he did not actually commit the crime that he was accused of committing and that he was falsely imprisoned. 

As time continued and as he persevered and endured, he encountered someone who could help him. Things still did not immediately go his way, and his most recent attempt to prove his case was again rejected by the Judge. However, he said that as a result of that most recent encounter, he “had his Truth restored.” Suddenly he believed again … in what he had actually known all along. 

He knew that he had been falsely accused. But the Journey caused him to fall into a ditch of self-doubt, making him doubt reality! But now, he was reminded of what was real and what was false.

God sent someone to help him. Someone who could Restore Reality for him. He knew the Truth! But the pain associated with the Journey caused him to even doubt the reality of that immutable Truth. 


In other words … the man … 


“Knew What He Heard!”


Simultaneously

James (3:11-12, Phillips) discusses two kinds of water coming out of the same fountain. I have read other translations of this verse that speak of brackish water (a mixture of salty and fresh water) and fresh water coming out of one fountain. In other words, you go to a water fountain, or in modern vernacular, you go to the water cooler. Not one of those fancy ones with the hot red button for hot water and the blue cold button for cold water. This is a regular ole one faucet water cooler with the clear, blue tinted, ten gallon jug of water on top. 

Now, when anyone goes to that water cooler, they expect to get a cup full of fresh, crisp, clean, cold water. However, you go to that fountain one time and get a cup that tastes like fresh spring water. Then you drink that cup. Still thirsty, you press the button again in order to get a refill. As you drink that water, expecting the same clean taste, you spit the water out on the carpet in your Doctor’s office because all of a sudden, somehow, inexplicably you got a cup of salt water that tastes like it came from the middle of the Atlantic ocean!


The seemingly impossible has just occurred! You got two different kinds of water from the same fountain, jug of water, and same cup. Nothing has changed! … Yet almost simultaneously … Everything has changed!


That is what it feels like, albeit over time, when self doubt creeps in and begins to cause you to lose sight of your Dream. ‘You Know What You Heard’ God say to you or show you in the Dreams. But because you have spent the next thirteen years like Joseph bumping into furniture while you call yourself “Obediently Following God to the Journey’s End”, you start to doubt what you know to be True.


It is like drinking saltwater from the same water cooler that just provided fresh clean spring water!


I had wrestled with that verse in James (3) for years. Knowing that as the old chocolate bar commercial says “sometimes I feel like a nut! And sometimes I don’t!” Sometimes I know and Believe EXACTLY what God Said. “I Know What I Heard!” 

I learned that the key word is ‘simultaneously.’ Two different kinds of water cannot come out of the same fountain at the same time. Or in this instance, from the same source or jug of water. If there is fresh water in the jug, and the cup is clean, then the same fresh spring water will come out. Particularly while you are standing in front of the same jug. You may look away from or lose sight of the water jug from time to time while pouring out the water. But the water is the same. 


The Truth is STILL the Truth …

The Dream is STILL the Dream …


Thus, no matter how many doubt me for building my Ark in the middle of a Desert, as I said when describing Noah’s Personality Portrait in my first Book (Genesis 6:14-22). Now these same people, like Job’s doubting friends, will SIMULTANEOUSLY come to you for Godly Advice & Counsel! All the while talking behind your back and in the RARE instance be BRAZEN enough to tell you to your face, in effect:


“You have the ability to Hear from God … FOR ME!!!”


“But when it comes to you, your Obedience, and that Ark you buildin’ … ‘CAN YOU SEE?!?’”


Now that is an example of two waters coming out of the same doubting fountain! And why that verse in James (3) confused me! How can … NEVERMIND!!! They are just spewing water out of their fountain!!!


You have a Destiny to Fulfill!


Ark Builders

So, for us Ark Builders, we have to keep our eyes on the Prize of the High Calling (Philippians 3:12-14, Phillips). We have to keep our focus on what we ‘Know We Heard!’ The Journey will be difficult!

But the Leader, Author, & Finisher can See! 

He Invented Seeing! 

He Invented Hearing!


So … You have to ‘Know What You Heard!’ 


You have to Faithfully endure all hardships and even tolerate losing sight of the truth from time to time (2 Timothy 2:3-7, Phillips). You might even ask a Butler to help you get out of Jail when God NEVER told you to ask anyone for help (Genesis 40). But that is ok, you have to pick yourself up and march on to the end of the Journey, knowing that (1 Peter 5:9-11, Phillips) …


The Leader Can See!


And …


You Can Hear!

Earlism #38 Not Comfortable Here?

By Jones The Advisor / January 10, 2020 / 0 Comments


“… You are never going to be comfortable … 

… in a place where you were not supposed to Stay …”



You are never going to be very happy, content, and/or completely comfortable …

… In a place where you are not Supposed to … 

Or Purposed to Stay beyond your Season 



The Lord … said to Abram, “Leave your native country, your relatives, and your father’s family, and go to the land that I will show you …

So Abram departed as the Lord had instructed …

Genesis 12:1 & 4 (NLT)