“… You are not Entitled to Act upon …

… Nor do you have the Right to Act upon … 

… The Mutual or The OneWay Romantic “Feelings” …

… That you may have …

… For Another Person …”



… Seems Self Explanatory …

… The idea that you can have ‘romantic’ feelings for someone else. Whether they are feelings that are reciprocated or not. Yet, there also exists a concurrent … The idea that you can have ‘romantic’ feelings for someone else … Whether they are feelings that are reciprocated or not … Yet, there also exists a concurrent fact that you do not have the ‘Right’ (See Earlism #11 Right Is A Dangerous Thing) … to act on those ‘romantic’ feelings …

… Seems self explanatory …

… Yet somehow I seem to have to continue to explain it …

.… Thus, I will gladly do so again …

… A lot of people are hung up on, ‘the one that got away’ … They spend years pining away over that person … who they saw as ‘their perfect match’ … They can be married or single … but they unfortunately regret the fact that … for whatever reason … things just did not seem to work out between the two of you …

… Now, believe me when I tell you that I am not … Now, believe me when I tell you … that I am not knocking you … for ‘wishing’ that it had worked out between you two … Real Chemistry between two people is hard to find (See Earlism #79 Chemistry … Passion) …

… Heck … I have personally lost A LOT! of ‘friends’ … Two of whom I have come to call “BFFs Who Do Not Talk To Me Anymore” … 

… However … people seem to think that … 

… Just because you like someone … and God Forbid you may have actually ‘Shared a Genuine Connection’ with that other person … OR … It may have just been a One Way attraction … Because you thought that person would be … Your ‘Perfect Match’ …

.… Does Not Necessarily Mean … that the correct set of circumstances & timing existed … such that the two of you could actually … Connect with each other … And Live Happily EverAfter …

… I cannot explain it any other way … Other than to say that … ‘Sometimes Life Be’s like that’ … You do not always get to Act Upon … Nor are you Entitled to Act Upon … The Feelings that you have for someone else …

… Not even when those ‘Romantic’ Feelings are Mutually Shared …

… I have a Yet to be Published Earlism about Feelings & Busses … That I will not ‘give away’ right now …

… But suffice it to say that you have to appreciate the fact that you shared a ‘Mutually Expressed Romantic Connection’ with another person … And Believe that The Right One … Will Come Along … IF … You Are Patient Enough to Find Them …


… Think of it this way … 

… If You found that ‘Connection With One’ … 

… Then it Must Be Possible that At Least One More Person … 

… With those Qualities … 


… Exists in the World …

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