“… Your problem is not that you cannot get married …

… Your problem is that you have standards … “



Single women often say to me; ‘no one wants to marry me.’ Or, ‘ I cannot find nor can or will any ‘good man’ find me. 

There must be something wrong …

with me? …’


My Earlism #30 Reply:

“Your problem is not that you cannot get married …

Your problem is that you have (Kingdom) standards! …

… You can be MARRIED TOMORROW if you choose to be, unless tomorrow is not a weekday, because the Magistrate’s office is closed.” 


How you may ask?

… All you have to do is to go down to the local 7Eleven or to the local SubWay Sandwich Shop … and Just Stand There! …

Some dude with a Gold Tooth, who’s friends call him ‘Shucky‘, will invariably come up to you and proposition you!

You dont want ‘Shucky!’  …

That is your problem …



God has given you a Vision and Standards  … 



UNFORTUNATELY, you MIGHT settle for ‘someone who is close’ (see Earlisms #14 & #68) … 

‘A Past Prologue’ … & … Your Dream … 

Then, … TRY TO clean it up by saying, ‘Relationships are hard!’ 

But you will not …

Your Standards and God’s Vision for your life will not …

Allow you to settle for brotha ‘Shucky!’ …

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