“… You are not Entitled to Act upon … … Nor do you have the Right to Act upon …  … The Mutual or The OneWay Romantic “Feelings” … … That you may have … … For Another Person …” … Seems Self Explanatory … … The idea that you can have ‘romantic’ feelings for…

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“… Question: How do I Figure Out … … What’s My Type …  … Who’s ‘The One?’ … …   …  … Answer: Look Back at Each ‘The One’ … …   … … Never Settle for Anything Less …” “… How do I Figure Out … … What’s My Type …  … Who’s ‘The One?’ … … What I Should Look…

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“… You can Choose … … to go all the way Through … … OR … … you can choose … … to settle … … and force your way Out …” … Staying with it—that’s what God requires.  Stay with it to the end.  You won’t be sorry, and you’ll be Saved … Matthew…

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“… If you take something that does not belong to you …  … you are stealing … “ “And I do not steal.” Meaning: … If you accept someone’s false report, lie, misrepresentation of your character, misjudgment of your intentions, misinterpretation of your actions, distortion of your character, intentions, or actions …  … If you…

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“… Fear inside …  … leads many to … … attempt to control outside …” … Ever wonder why “that person” … … Seems to be so ‘Controlling?’ … … Fear, as well as old, unhealed, unresolved hurts and pain inside …  … Leads many to control everything that they possibly can, outside …  … Love contains…

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Question: “… How do you know they are not over me yet? … Jones’ Answer: … Because they have not Tried to get over you yet! …” ‘Do or Do Not … There IS Try’ … Jedi Master Yoda said … … “Do or Do Not … There is No Try” … … Sorry Jedi…

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“… Question: How do you hit a target? …  … Answer: Throw something at it! …” A Marketing term that relates to reaching Primary, Secondary, and Tertiary Target Markets.   But it also can be used to encourage people to reach their goals. One must first identify their Goal or Target Objective.  Then they must hurl…

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“… Why do people … … Dumb Things Down… … As Opposed to … … Smarten Things Up …”  I Can See Clearly Now … The Rain Is Gone This topic reminds me of the song “I can see Clearly now … the Rain is Gone” … Who sang it? … I never know with the Oldies!…

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I once asked one of my (former) Advising students … “… When are you going to stop hurting my friend? …” Many people CHOOSE … … To hurt themselves …  Typically by returning …  … Time and time again to the wrong ‘man/woman’ …  … The ONE who keeps hurting you …  It is like repeatedly throwing…

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(Part 1) “… Nobody cares what “you” think! …”  … Why Not? … No one wants or NEEDS to hear or know what YOU think or “feel” about their problems … This is the ultimate Counseling, Advising, & Skilled People Helping Proverbial Truth: Only tell people what Has Been Factually Revealed to you about them, regarding…

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