Earl A. Jones, Ed.D.

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Earlisms

Earlism #38 Not Comfortable Here?

“… You are never going to be comfortable …  … in a place where you were not supposed to Stay …” You are never going to be very happy, content, and/or completely comfortable … … In a place where you are not Supposed to …  Or Purposed to Stay beyond your Season … The Lord … said to Abram, “Leave your…

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Earlism #30 Your Problem Is That You Have Standards

“… Your problem is not that you cannot get married … … Your problem is that you have standards … “ Single women often say to me; ‘no one wants to marry me.’ Or, ‘ I cannot find nor can or will any ‘good man’ find me.  There must be something wrong … with me?…

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Earlism #26 Self – Inflicted

I once asked one of my (former) Advising students … “… When are you going to stop hurting my friend? …” Many people CHOOSE … … To hurt themselves …  Typically by returning …  … Time and time again to the wrong ‘man/woman’ …  … The ONE who keeps hurting you …  It is like repeatedly throwing…

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Earlism #69 Follow The Heart

“… Follow your heart … … You Will Always …  … Find A Way … … Follow God’s Heart …  … You Will ALWAYS … … Find The Way! …” Jesus said to him, “I am the [only] Way … and the [real] Truth and the [real] Life … John 14:6 (AMP)

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Earlism #14 Past Prologue

“What’s past may indeed become prologue …  … which can lead you to a good …  … or a bad place …  … depending on where your past is located …  … in the present …” Adapted from Shakespeare “What’s Past is Prologue” Spoken by Antonio in Act II, Scene I of The Tempest Also…

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Earlism #11 Right Is A Dangerous Thing

“’Right’ …  … is a dangerous thing to have …”  Because people usually try to and believe that they have justifiable ‘Right’ to use, inflict, and/or impose their personal version of ‘Right’ on everyone else’s life and sensibilities. This Earlism was developed because many people, specifically young women who I have spoken with through the…

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Earlism #23 When Helping Others With Their Problems …

(Part 1) “… Nobody cares what “you” think! …”  … Why Not? … No one wants or NEEDS to hear or know what YOU think or “feel” about their problems … This is the ultimate Counseling, Advising, & Skilled People Helping Proverbial Truth: Only tell people what Has Been Factually Revealed to you about them, regarding…

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